What does it feel like when the adult members of a family are too preoccupied or self-absorbed to act as parents? What is life like for kids who grow up in a family where alcoholism is a daily reality, where separation and divorce hang like a cloud over daily life? In these situations it is too often the teen who assumes much of the responsibility and has to grow up quickly amidst the struggle to maintain even a semblance of stability.

My Crazy Life presents the voices of ten teens who have lived through these situations. Rather than despair, you will hear these young people talking about how they coped and survived. One girl found strength through friendships and her sibling relationships. Another girl, abused by her alcoholic father, tells how her commitment to art and a sympathetic teacher gave value to her life.

The Afterword by the head of psychiatry at a metropolitan children’s hospital provides guidance to those seeking help.

interviews compiled by Allen Flaming and Kate Scowen

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Kate Scowen has worked with teens and families for over 20 years as a youth counselor, the manager of an inner-city youth center, and a consultant. She lives in Toronto, Ontario, with her husband and three daughters.

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“... quite simply awe-inspiring.”—Globe and Mail

“... one of those books concerned, caring adults will want to recommend to trouble teens ... could be used in an English class as a starting point for discussion and writing or in any course which deals with teen or family issues.” —Resource Links

“The reality of the book is very much a strength ... the entire book will provide inspiration and hope for any teen who is having a tough time with life.”—City Parent

“This would be an ideal selection for a group setting, and would serve as a unique sample for classroom writing. Readers who feel themselves in trouble would benefit from knowing that they are not alone, and there is always another opportunity for change.”—KLIATT

“... brutally honest and heartrending ...”—CM Reviews

“… honest, gut-wrenching accounts of turmoil and upheaval could be depressing beyond belief but instead amazingly document the resiliency and coping skills of each teen.” —VOYA

“The stories are gritty, funny, sad, and even heroic, and readers will be easily drawn into the stories.”—Booklist

“The scenarios in this book effectively show young people in similar situations how to cope and keep on with life even when home is not supportive.” —ForeWord Reviews

“... authentically voiced, [and] these harrowing tales ... are lively and absorbing ...”—Horn Book